hahhaa.. After posting the previous post on Cadence, I came across a conversation I had with Ping today.. hahha.. super funny.. but yeah.. it is the truth without a doubt.. For as long as I can remember, Ping and I have never ever ever agreed on a single guy who we both think is good looking.. hahaha.. complete randomness, i agree.. hehehe.. to further elaborate what i mean.. this is what she said to me today:
ping says: (20:54:07):
umm u said to me.. i am the person that would say a guy is not cute when u say so
ping says: (20:54:09): HAHAH
ping says: (20:54:15): i laughed so loud when i read that...and coughed
ping says: (20:54:19): and almost muntah darah
ping says: (20:54:28): no la..jk..but almost :P
ping says: (20:55:11): but yeah
ping says: (20:55:13): *name has been deleted for certain reasons*
ping says: (20:55:15): is the best so far
ping says: (20:55:18): you're gettingg better :P
Me missing Chiew YiPing LOTS lo!!!! Come back quick!!! :) *super big hugz*
Friday, January 25, 2008
the new meaning of BABI *no offences to anyone*
This is a first for me to have heard such an explanation.. hahha.. funny no doubt.. hehehe.. but awfully creative at the same time.. hahaha.. who is this creative fren of mine? hehehe.. without any doubt, it is my super duper close bud.. *drum sets rolling* MISS CADENCE WONG!!

*hahhaa,, eh, remember this pic or not? We took this at seng hing when we first came last year.. :) "
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:29): eh
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:33): Babi in my dictionary
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:37): is for close frenz ok
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:43): u shud be happy
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:44): HAHHAHAHA
call me babi and still want me to be happy.. jialat la u cadence.. hahha.. none the less.. felt like blogging.. hahha.. thus the random posts tonight.. hahaha.. :P

*hahhaa,, eh, remember this pic or not? We took this at seng hing when we first came last year.. :) "
What did she say that was just sooooo entertaining? hehehe.. THIS:
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:29): eh
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:33): Babi in my dictionary
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:37): is for close frenz ok
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:43): u shud be happy
-ME- We are nerds. Say yes to wealth. Say no to poverty says: (00:43:44): HAHHAHAHA
call me babi and still want me to be happy.. jialat la u cadence.. hahha.. none the less.. felt like blogging.. hahha.. thus the random posts tonight.. hahaha.. :P
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, yes OR no? :)
A random topic, a random title isnt it? I wasnt even thinking of blogging today.. hehehe.. but after two hours of studying (well.. trying at least, here in the library.. :P) I got super tired and had a nap on the couch.. hehehe.. yes.. here in the library.. anyways.. after being half energised.. hehehe.. i set out to have my daily dose of internet surfing.. hehehe.. and i came across ping's blog ( see.. i love you sooo much.. i just have to read your blog everyday.. hehehe.. Missing u lots, hun! Come back soon! I'm sure McLovin wants you to too! :D ) and terread one of her older posts, sexism at a crossroad.
I posted a similar article in relation to this topic not soo long ago.. in conjunction with the post kenny sia posted on his blog. I stand firmly on my point and still think that men and women are just two entirely different beings.. What seems stupid or unsensible to a man may seem to be the sweetest thing ever to a woman.. it just proves how different the two mindsets are.. heheh... anyways, like what i said this is a completely random post. Thus, the most important part of this post would still be to read Ping's post.. :D hehhee.. it's a very interesting and enlightening post.. enjoy! Have a good weekend everyone! :)
I posted a similar article in relation to this topic not soo long ago.. in conjunction with the post kenny sia posted on his blog. I stand firmly on my point and still think that men and women are just two entirely different beings.. What seems stupid or unsensible to a man may seem to be the sweetest thing ever to a woman.. it just proves how different the two mindsets are.. heheh... anyways, like what i said this is a completely random post. Thus, the most important part of this post would still be to read Ping's post.. :D hehhee.. it's a very interesting and enlightening post.. enjoy! Have a good weekend everyone! :)
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Reminiscene yet again...
I've been thinking lots of the old times.. hahaha.. the times in sunway.. the times back home.. last year when i came.. everything has been soooo wonderful.. i have been extremely blessed to have all of you in my life.. I miss you all soooo much!
At lunch, Keith, vocan and I were talking about our first year here.. how lots of us met during classes together.. it just hit me that with all the different majors we're all going to take this coming new year.. are we all still going to be as close as we used to be? Will we still have sooooo much to talk about? will we still be able to share all our likes and dislikes about our tutors? are we still able to joke about all the funny incidents in class? Will we still meet up just to study in the library? Are we still going to spend endless sleepless nights trying to finish our assignments together? OR are we all going to be strangers? How would it be?
At lunch, Keith, vocan and I were talking about our first year here.. how lots of us met during classes together.. it just hit me that with all the different majors we're all going to take this coming new year.. are we all still going to be as close as we used to be? Will we still have sooooo much to talk about? will we still be able to share all our likes and dislikes about our tutors? are we still able to joke about all the funny incidents in class? Will we still meet up just to study in the library? Are we still going to spend endless sleepless nights trying to finish our assignments together? OR are we all going to be strangers? How would it be?
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
reading into one's character
What do we look for in a person? You know how people always talk about looking for that one person who is kind, sweet, caring, funny etc... is tat enough? Really.. wat are we all looking for? Definitely we want tat person to be sweet and attentive.. yet is that enough? I think being intelligent.. having a good sense of humour.. bold.. fun loving yet serious at the same time.. these are extremely wonderful add ons in one's character.. hehehe.. yet among the guys i do know.. hahaha.. i think the ones who do have these in their character.. there's just merely a handful.. hehehe.. and to name one of them.. WILSON YEO!!! hahaha.. now, dont say i dont heart you, ah fren! hahhaa.. I missing you and the rest 3 million rivers lo! hahaha.. and i'm still going to go up to whoever the girl is in the future and tell her.. "wei, u know how lucky you ah or not?" :P
Saturday, January 19, 2008
The unpredictability of life..
As i sit here and type this, I have the song "God of Miracles" playing in the background.. ten thousand things are playing through my head right now... Life is sooooo unpredictable.. We'll never know what would happen tomorrow.. Do you remember the times when all of us would just say " no, i'll do that tomorrow" or " no, it's alright.. i let this chance slip by.. another one's bound to come my way tomorrow" or most importantly, when we have an arguement with our family and frens.. what do we say ALL the time? " it's not my fault.. why should i apologise?" and because of that one thought in your head.. siblings may start not talking to one another.. frens become enemies.. is it worth it? Is life that worthless for you guys to play such games? Often.. people only tend to regret their decisions when they've lost their love ones.. I'm not talking about anyone here in particular.. but i'm talking about how people react to tonnes of relationship matters in general.
You all must be wondering what made me think about all these things. In the span of two years.. two very close frens of mine have both suddenly lost their fathers.. I'm still at shock that it has happened.. I'm shocked and scared at the same time.. I'm sorry for my frens.. but i cant help but to imagine how MY life would be if it were to happen to me.. I'll be shattered.. I cant imagine and I dont wanna think about it.. All i can say is tat, cherish the moments we all have with our families and frens.. never let an opportunity slip your way.. if there are broken relationships, mend them.. before it's too late..
To my frens, I'm sorry.. I'm very very proud of you guys for being sooo strong.. everything in life is planned by the God Almighty.. be glad that your fathers have been with you for these 20 odd years of your life.. that he played such a major role.. and how he will always remain in your hearts forever.. You guys will always be kept in prayers.. Take good care of yourselves!
God Bless,
Ying.
You all must be wondering what made me think about all these things. In the span of two years.. two very close frens of mine have both suddenly lost their fathers.. I'm still at shock that it has happened.. I'm shocked and scared at the same time.. I'm sorry for my frens.. but i cant help but to imagine how MY life would be if it were to happen to me.. I'll be shattered.. I cant imagine and I dont wanna think about it.. All i can say is tat, cherish the moments we all have with our families and frens.. never let an opportunity slip your way.. if there are broken relationships, mend them.. before it's too late..
To my frens, I'm sorry.. I'm very very proud of you guys for being sooo strong.. everything in life is planned by the God Almighty.. be glad that your fathers have been with you for these 20 odd years of your life.. that he played such a major role.. and how he will always remain in your hearts forever.. You guys will always be kept in prayers.. Take good care of yourselves!
God Bless,
Ying.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Reminiscence
Do you remember the when we were kids in kindy.. going to the cultural village together and swimming lessons too?
Do you remember the times in primary school when we would just run around the school with no care in the world?
Do you remember the fights we all used to have in high school when we were prefects, class monitors and club presidents?
Do you remember the times when we would all just sit around and gossip instead of listening to Mr.Lee at Sri Sarjana?
Do you remember all the wonderful times we had at A8-02?
Do you remember our family tree?
Do you remember when someone was sick.. we were all sooo worried and finally came back together as one.. like a family.. like how we have always been?
Do you remember all the birthdays? All the Laughter? All the tears?
Do you remember the times we would all talk about our relationships? the advices we used to give one another.. the good.. the bad.. the support.. the feeling and acknowledgement that we would always be by one another's side always?
Time has gone by so quickly.. in a flash.. 21 years of my life has gone by.. I ask myself.. what have i done? what have i accomplished? Well.. one of the greates joy would be to have all these wonderful people in my life.. I miss you all dearly.. I wish you guys are with me here now.. none the less.. i'll see some of you soon.. the rest.. we shall meet during winter break! :) Hugz!
All my love,
Ying
Do you remember the times in primary school when we would just run around the school with no care in the world?
Do you remember the fights we all used to have in high school when we were prefects, class monitors and club presidents?
Do you remember the times when we would all just sit around and gossip instead of listening to Mr.Lee at Sri Sarjana?
Do you remember all the wonderful times we had at A8-02?
Do you remember our family tree?
Do you remember when someone was sick.. we were all sooo worried and finally came back together as one.. like a family.. like how we have always been?
Do you remember all the birthdays? All the Laughter? All the tears?
Do you remember the times we would all talk about our relationships? the advices we used to give one another.. the good.. the bad.. the support.. the feeling and acknowledgement that we would always be by one another's side always?
Time has gone by so quickly.. in a flash.. 21 years of my life has gone by.. I ask myself.. what have i done? what have i accomplished? Well.. one of the greates joy would be to have all these wonderful people in my life.. I miss you all dearly.. I wish you guys are with me here now.. none the less.. i'll see some of you soon.. the rest.. we shall meet during winter break! :) Hugz!
All my love,
Ying
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Tuesday, January 15, 2008
My own Jolly Christmas break.. 2007
What comes to mind when one talks about christmas? Snow? Skiing? Santa? Presents? To me.. Christmas is all about spending time with people who matter the most to you.. your loved ones.. Christmas isnt about being in a cold country and going through a white christmas.. it means being with your family.. even if you're in a desert...
For me.. 2007's Christmas was one of the best I've ever had.. It was no white Christmas.. but it was fun.. :D Christmas came very early for me last year.. hehehe.. I guess going home has always been on my mind ever since I came to Melbourne last Feb.. Thus.. to me.. going home for the whole month of December was a fabulous Christmas present by itself.. :)
All started with me arriving home.. seeing my family.. going off to KL with mom for the weekend.. seeing my aunt who is there now.. spending Christmas eve with the whole extended family.. going to church on Christmas day with Cindy.. spending New year's eve with my closest frens.. Welcomed the new year by celebrating my parents' 22nd Anniversary.. Seeing my grandpa.. Spending time with my cousins.. :D
Everything went soooo well.. I wished time will just stand still.. But good times always fly by soooo quickly.. :s Am back in Melb now.. not tat I dont wanna be back.. but i wished more than ever to be home again.. :( Never mind.. shall be going to Perth on the 31st.. will be spending the week with aunt and her family.. celebrating CNY.. will be back in time for my parents' arrival to melb.. hehehe... :D
Cant wait! Anywyas.. below are some photos.. enjoy!
God Bless,
Ying.



For me.. 2007's Christmas was one of the best I've ever had.. It was no white Christmas.. but it was fun.. :D Christmas came very early for me last year.. hehehe.. I guess going home has always been on my mind ever since I came to Melbourne last Feb.. Thus.. to me.. going home for the whole month of December was a fabulous Christmas present by itself.. :)
All started with me arriving home.. seeing my family.. going off to KL with mom for the weekend.. seeing my aunt who is there now.. spending Christmas eve with the whole extended family.. going to church on Christmas day with Cindy.. spending New year's eve with my closest frens.. Welcomed the new year by celebrating my parents' 22nd Anniversary.. Seeing my grandpa.. Spending time with my cousins.. :D
Everything went soooo well.. I wished time will just stand still.. But good times always fly by soooo quickly.. :s Am back in Melb now.. not tat I dont wanna be back.. but i wished more than ever to be home again.. :( Never mind.. shall be going to Perth on the 31st.. will be spending the week with aunt and her family.. celebrating CNY.. will be back in time for my parents' arrival to melb.. hehehe... :D
Cant wait! Anywyas.. below are some photos.. enjoy!
God Bless,
Ying.
Parents' Anniversary dinner.. :D
All of us with grandparents..
Monday, January 14, 2008
A recap of 2007 and a plan for how 2008 would be like..
I'm soooo sorry for not having to post anything recently.. it's been such a busy month.. was at home.. hehehe.. it was awesome.. will be heading home again this winter.. thus people.. do not need to miss me too much.. hehehe.. :P
Now now.. a year has gone by and a new year has come along.. haha.. time flies doesnt it? What do i think about all this? Read on and you shall find out.. hehehe.. :P
2007... how should i describe it? It has definitely been one of the best years in my life.. yet at the same time one of the unpleasant ones too.. hahha.. soo many things happened in the short span of a year..
The highlight of the whole year would be me coming to Melbourne for my first year..
In 2007, I went without seeing my parents for ten months.. hahaha.. record breaking eh? hahaha.. In feb, I came to monash.. caufield campus.. and did not go home till christmas.. hehehe..
In 2007, I started going to church.. i accepted Christ.. I started to be more positive.. believing that He had already planned everyone's life.. that good things will always happen.. for God so love us.. :)
In 2007, I met lots of frens.. some frens became very close frens.. yet some frens.. started to drift away after a while... I went through a roller coaster ride of emotions.. of something I tot was there.. but i guess.. never was..
In 2007, I spent one of the best winters of my life.. i spent quality time with my cousins and their kids.. cousins growing closer.. caring more for one another.. :)
In 2007, I started to finally really appreciate the importance of family and how absolutely bless I am to have them.. for without them.. I would never be who I am today.. :)
The good the bad.. all has passed.. I will always cherish the wonderful moments I've had in 2007.. I shall learn from the bad experiences and move on.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a more caring daughter, granddaughter, niece, cousin and aunt.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a more faithful Christian.. and follow His plans for me.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a better student.. Achieve my own educational goals..
For 2008, I vow to try get an internship in a desired firm..
for 2008, I vow to finish my assignments AT LEAST two (or maybe one :P) days before the due date.
For 2008, I vow to not think of any uselss or hopeless ideas which were never meant to be...
For 2008, I vow that I shall forget you... and move on with life.. I'm slowly doing so now.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a better person, a better friend.. I wish all my frens well in this new year regardless of all your plans.. :)
All and all.. I believe that 2008 would be a VERY VERY GOOD YEAR!!!! Woohoooo!!! :D Hapy 2008 everyone! All the best in all you do! God bless!!! :D
Now now.. a year has gone by and a new year has come along.. haha.. time flies doesnt it? What do i think about all this? Read on and you shall find out.. hehehe.. :P
2007... how should i describe it? It has definitely been one of the best years in my life.. yet at the same time one of the unpleasant ones too.. hahha.. soo many things happened in the short span of a year..
The highlight of the whole year would be me coming to Melbourne for my first year..
In 2007, I went without seeing my parents for ten months.. hahaha.. record breaking eh? hahaha.. In feb, I came to monash.. caufield campus.. and did not go home till christmas.. hehehe..
In 2007, I started going to church.. i accepted Christ.. I started to be more positive.. believing that He had already planned everyone's life.. that good things will always happen.. for God so love us.. :)
In 2007, I met lots of frens.. some frens became very close frens.. yet some frens.. started to drift away after a while... I went through a roller coaster ride of emotions.. of something I tot was there.. but i guess.. never was..
In 2007, I spent one of the best winters of my life.. i spent quality time with my cousins and their kids.. cousins growing closer.. caring more for one another.. :)
In 2007, I started to finally really appreciate the importance of family and how absolutely bless I am to have them.. for without them.. I would never be who I am today.. :)
The good the bad.. all has passed.. I will always cherish the wonderful moments I've had in 2007.. I shall learn from the bad experiences and move on.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a more caring daughter, granddaughter, niece, cousin and aunt.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a more faithful Christian.. and follow His plans for me.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a better student.. Achieve my own educational goals..
For 2008, I vow to try get an internship in a desired firm..
for 2008, I vow to finish my assignments AT LEAST two (or maybe one :P) days before the due date.
For 2008, I vow to not think of any uselss or hopeless ideas which were never meant to be...
For 2008, I vow that I shall forget you... and move on with life.. I'm slowly doing so now.. :)
For 2008, I vow to be a better person, a better friend.. I wish all my frens well in this new year regardless of all your plans.. :)
All and all.. I believe that 2008 would be a VERY VERY GOOD YEAR!!!! Woohoooo!!! :D Hapy 2008 everyone! All the best in all you do! God bless!!! :D
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
hiahzz
The sweet bliss of actually being at home after soooooooooooooooooo long.. is undescribable.. it's good to finally see the family again.. it's great meeting up with old frens.. but then again.. i miss melbourne too... i miss the people there.. :(
Thursday, November 29, 2007
hey u all!
Hey everyone! Sorry for not updating all these while.. hehee.. sooooo much has happened since i last wrote.. I've moved.. now staying in the city.. wohooo.. no more caufield.. this missy is going home next week!!! Yeay!!! But only for one month though... so everyone who wants to see me when i'm home.. give me a ring FAST!! :P I dont have internet connection at my new place yet.. thus i cant upload photos and all.. will do so the moment i get my net connection.. hehehee.. :P Till then.. take care! :D
Monday, November 05, 2007
Living life in God's Grace
Living life according to God's Grace is to live life according to what we have been called to be.. some of us maybe called to be leaders.. some of us maybe called to be politicians.. some of us maybe called to be in the medical support team.. some of us might be called to be in the arm force.. God has a plan for everybody.. and it is all up to us to live life according to the grace given by Him..
I was amazed by what Pastor Russell shared in church today.. it wasnt about what he said.. I was at awe that God knows every single one of us.. He is there to see us through the day.. that He knew us, before we know ourselves.. He has planned our lives ahead of us.. At times.. when life just seems down.. God is up to something.. He is at the other end.. making miracles happen when you need them the most.. When you are DOWN to nothing..God is UP to something! Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible!!
While watching no reservations with Chloe tonight, her friend sent her a video that I want to share with everyone.. it's really worth the watch.. :)
I was amazed by what Pastor Russell shared in church today.. it wasnt about what he said.. I was at awe that God knows every single one of us.. He is there to see us through the day.. that He knew us, before we know ourselves.. He has planned our lives ahead of us.. At times.. when life just seems down.. God is up to something.. He is at the other end.. making miracles happen when you need them the most.. When you are DOWN to nothing..God is UP to something! Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible!!
While watching no reservations with Chloe tonight, her friend sent her a video that I want to share with everyone.. it's really worth the watch.. :)
Thursday, November 01, 2007
For a close fren.. on a special day.. :)
1st November 1987 called for a great celebration in heaven.. for it was the birth of one of the most fantastic girls I have ever known.. she is smart.. she is funny… she is caring.. she is enthusiastic.. she is witty.. she is fun-loving.. she is full of confidence.. she is EVERYTHING you would want in a friend.. she is Miss Fenella Ho!! :P
I have known Fen for years now.. hahaa.. to a point I cant even exactly remember how I got to to know her.. neither do I remember when we met.. hahaa.. I remember once saying that our friendship goes all the way back to the Dinaosour age.. hahha.. :P
We have known each other for sooooooo long.. but truly we only gotten to really know one another when we were in Sunway.. you were major part of my life in Sunway.. together with Cindy, Adi Gun, Hiaw, Susanti, Jimmy, Triple C, Poh Gee and many more.. I constantly think and miss each and everyone of you soooo much.. especially on birthdays!
Fen, Thanks for being such a wonderful fren all these years.. You have always been there.. through thick and thin.. through all the dramas in life.. and I’m glad to say that till today.. you are STILL there.. On this beautiful day Fen, I wanna wish you a very happy birthday… I know you’re going through a very hard time right now.. and I am very sorry.. but I want you to try have a good birthday.. You are awesome and you deserve it! May the good Lord bless you richly.. May He mend that broken heart of yours… May your life forever be filled with joy and laughter as you have filled ours with… May the Lord keep you safe and close to Him always! I miss you lots, love!!! Likewise.. I too love you to bits!!! I’ll see you VERY VERY soon! Till then.. take good care of yourself! Hugz!
All my love,
Ying.
p/s: Cindy posted a beautiful post as well.. check it out
I have known Fen for years now.. hahaa.. to a point I cant even exactly remember how I got to to know her.. neither do I remember when we met.. hahaa.. I remember once saying that our friendship goes all the way back to the Dinaosour age.. hahha.. :P
We have known each other for sooooooo long.. but truly we only gotten to really know one another when we were in Sunway.. you were major part of my life in Sunway.. together with Cindy, Adi Gun, Hiaw, Susanti, Jimmy, Triple C, Poh Gee and many more.. I constantly think and miss each and everyone of you soooo much.. especially on birthdays!
Fen, Thanks for being such a wonderful fren all these years.. You have always been there.. through thick and thin.. through all the dramas in life.. and I’m glad to say that till today.. you are STILL there.. On this beautiful day Fen, I wanna wish you a very happy birthday… I know you’re going through a very hard time right now.. and I am very sorry.. but I want you to try have a good birthday.. You are awesome and you deserve it! May the good Lord bless you richly.. May He mend that broken heart of yours… May your life forever be filled with joy and laughter as you have filled ours with… May the Lord keep you safe and close to Him always! I miss you lots, love!!! Likewise.. I too love you to bits!!! I’ll see you VERY VERY soon! Till then.. take good care of yourself! Hugz!
All my love,
Ying.
p/s: Cindy posted a beautiful post as well.. check it out
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
The West Wing
I love the west wing!!! haaha.. it's VERY VERY addictive.. anyways.. I love this scene.. a conversation between sam and a republican leader... right before President Bartlet's re-election
Sam: ' What happened to loyalty?"
Republican leader: " You cant deposit it into a savings account!"
Woohooo!! Kick-ass line!! hahaha.. this is sooooo completely out of randomnes.. hahaha... anyways.. back to work now.. meeting the rest for Urban Life tonight.. hehehe.. :P
Sam: ' What happened to loyalty?"
Republican leader: " You cant deposit it into a savings account!"
Woohooo!! Kick-ass line!! hahaha.. this is sooooo completely out of randomnes.. hahaha... anyways.. back to work now.. meeting the rest for Urban Life tonight.. hehehe.. :P
Sunday, October 28, 2007
I LOVE PING'S BLOG!
I do!!! Seriously!! U guys wanna know why? hahhaa.. THIS is why!! hahaha :P
such a lovely post, no? :P
such a lovely post, no? :P
Friday, October 26, 2007
Interesting
hahaha.. I've been reading toooo much of Kenny sia's blog.. hahaa.. anyways.. Mr.Sia has posted yet another question on his blog.. this time.. he wants to know what are the 5 things that makes a guy/girl gorgeous in the eyes of the other.. Yet again.. there's another bottle of perfume out for grabs... hahaha.. I once again answered to it..
This was my answer:
1) the way he smiles at you like there's no other person in the
room but you.
2) the way he shows his concern over everything that you do.
Eg: when you're sick.. he constantly texts you to see how
you're doing.. making sure you've taken your medicine.
3) when he makes jokes that he knows arent funny but he makes
them anyways just to put a smile on your face.
4) when he would stand uo or defend just practically anyone or
anything that he believes is right.
5) when he is just being himself.. chilling with mates.. laughing
the night away.. bottom line.. when he is him.. when there's no pretense..
hahaha.. so people.. what do u guys think? agree? disagree? guys? let me know! Tis is interesting.. hahhaa.. :P
This was my answer:
1) the way he smiles at you like there's no other person in the
room but you.
2) the way he shows his concern over everything that you do.
Eg: when you're sick.. he constantly texts you to see how
you're doing.. making sure you've taken your medicine.
3) when he makes jokes that he knows arent funny but he makes
them anyways just to put a smile on your face.
4) when he would stand uo or defend just practically anyone or
anything that he believes is right.
5) when he is just being himself.. chilling with mates.. laughing
the night away.. bottom line.. when he is him.. when there's no pretense..
hahaha.. so people.. what do u guys think? agree? disagree? guys? let me know! Tis is interesting.. hahhaa.. :P
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Which is right? Guy approach girl? OR Girl approach Guy? :P
Kenny sia's latest post discusses the issue of whether it is right for a girl to make the first move.. hahaha.. i find it interesting.. that's something we talk about.. we think about it.. everyone preaches about equality in this modern world.. on how men and women are all equals.. yet again.. when it comes to the matter of the heart.. is it still like tat? are things still equal?
women often their man to be there.. through thick and thin.. that he's the one who's going to protect her.. who's going to be the one she holds on to when the world collapse down on her.. basically.. he is the STRONGER party in the relationship.. but if we're equal.. why cant we be the ones who they lean on? It's as good as asking anyone about their views on househusbands...
Someone's comment on Kenny's blog was pretty interesting.. and I agree strongly in something that was in the comment, "If you see a man you have your eyes on, GO FOR HIM. Do not sit around whining and drowning in your own little shallow pool of delusional hope that someday a prince will come proposing on your door with his white horse. " That's pretty true really.. haaha.. u cant say that u expect the person to acknowledge you.. and hope that he falls head over heels in love with you.. you wont know how he is UNTIL you know who he really is.. and u cant judge without even having a conversation..
I found it interesting.. thus I commented on the blog.. the following was my comment..
Who should approach whom? Guy approach girl? OR girl approach guy? It's an awfully easy question yet it's a difficult question to answer. I'm pretty sure no one would disagree with me when I said we have all been brought to believe that the ONLY right way for this is guy approach girl.. it's something that is unspoken.. the silent rule in a relationship.. but is that how it's suppose to be? In this modern and independent world where men and women are treated as equals.. how should this be any different? Women should be able to plug up the courage and go up there and confront the guy you like.. I know.. it's easier said than done.. but yet again.. if you dont try.. how would you know? Kenny.. Not to say you're wrong when generalising women the way you did in the post.. but then again.. NOT ALL women are like tat.. I for one definitely dont turn a guy down and bitch about him.. yeah.. we talk among gf's but we dont bitch or say that u're a loser.. often than none.. I believe that women are actually flattered that a guy they know or a guy fren asks them out.. they might turn you down.. not because you're below them or that you're not goodlooking.. or for the joy of just turning a guy down.. I think it's more of them believing that it would not work out.. thus they take the initiative to turn the guy down and save themselves a heartache.. yet again.. i'm talking on my perspective.. and it is neither fair to say that all women are like tat.. But I DO strongly agree that women should take the initiative and get to know the guy they fancy... there's no need to pull any stunts whatsoever.. a mere and simple 'hello' will do... get to know him.. who knows.. someone you thought of as your prince charming might very well end up being your living nightmare.. :P hehehe.. so.. yeah.. I say.. there's nothing wrong for the girl to walk up to the guy and take the first step.. some signs we send do NOT display our objectives all that appropriately.. it can either be misinterpreted.. or disregarded.. and at that point.. there's no one else to blame but yourself. :)
I know I side tracked a lot.. hahaha.. but I thought since I was at it.. I might as well just express my views at the same time.. hehehe.. anyways.. there's a bottle of perfume to win.. hahaa.. anyone whose interested.. go visit kenny sia's blog.. www.kennysia.com
women often their man to be there.. through thick and thin.. that he's the one who's going to protect her.. who's going to be the one she holds on to when the world collapse down on her.. basically.. he is the STRONGER party in the relationship.. but if we're equal.. why cant we be the ones who they lean on? It's as good as asking anyone about their views on househusbands...
Someone's comment on Kenny's blog was pretty interesting.. and I agree strongly in something that was in the comment, "If you see a man you have your eyes on, GO FOR HIM. Do not sit around whining and drowning in your own little shallow pool of delusional hope that someday a prince will come proposing on your door with his white horse. " That's pretty true really.. haaha.. u cant say that u expect the person to acknowledge you.. and hope that he falls head over heels in love with you.. you wont know how he is UNTIL you know who he really is.. and u cant judge without even having a conversation..
I found it interesting.. thus I commented on the blog.. the following was my comment..
Who should approach whom? Guy approach girl? OR girl approach guy? It's an awfully easy question yet it's a difficult question to answer. I'm pretty sure no one would disagree with me when I said we have all been brought to believe that the ONLY right way for this is guy approach girl.. it's something that is unspoken.. the silent rule in a relationship.. but is that how it's suppose to be? In this modern and independent world where men and women are treated as equals.. how should this be any different? Women should be able to plug up the courage and go up there and confront the guy you like.. I know.. it's easier said than done.. but yet again.. if you dont try.. how would you know? Kenny.. Not to say you're wrong when generalising women the way you did in the post.. but then again.. NOT ALL women are like tat.. I for one definitely dont turn a guy down and bitch about him.. yeah.. we talk among gf's but we dont bitch or say that u're a loser.. often than none.. I believe that women are actually flattered that a guy they know or a guy fren asks them out.. they might turn you down.. not because you're below them or that you're not goodlooking.. or for the joy of just turning a guy down.. I think it's more of them believing that it would not work out.. thus they take the initiative to turn the guy down and save themselves a heartache.. yet again.. i'm talking on my perspective.. and it is neither fair to say that all women are like tat.. But I DO strongly agree that women should take the initiative and get to know the guy they fancy... there's no need to pull any stunts whatsoever.. a mere and simple 'hello' will do... get to know him.. who knows.. someone you thought of as your prince charming might very well end up being your living nightmare.. :P hehehe.. so.. yeah.. I say.. there's nothing wrong for the girl to walk up to the guy and take the first step.. some signs we send do NOT display our objectives all that appropriately.. it can either be misinterpreted.. or disregarded.. and at that point.. there's no one else to blame but yourself. :)
I know I side tracked a lot.. hahaha.. but I thought since I was at it.. I might as well just express my views at the same time.. hehehe.. anyways.. there's a bottle of perfume to win.. hahaa.. anyone whose interested.. go visit kenny sia's blog.. www.kennysia.com
Monday, October 22, 2007
Nostalgia
I’ve always thought that I’ve gone through the worst of homesickness after surviving my first month in KL two years ago.. I was wrong.. After not seeing my parents for eight months now.. the desire to hop on the next plane home has never been as strong as these past few weeks.. I guess after being away from home for so long.. nostalgia just hit me. One never truly appreciates what one has until it is either lost or away from it.. I have never miss home this much..
I long to wake up and see my parents.. I long to have dinner with my grandpa.. I long to sit outside at the balcony with dad and chat the night away.. I miss the times when I would go for movies with mom on Sundays then later we’ll go for coffee with dad.. I miss everything that home has to offer.. I miss my family!!
People often say that a child is such a blessing in life.. while I believe that Parents are such blessings in a child’s life.. No one would be in any position they are in now if not for their parents.. Our parents have loved us from the moment they brought us into this world.. giving us what they think is the best for us… never failing to love us… They stand by us no matter what happens.. They love us regardless of who and how we are.. their best gift to us is their undying and unconditional love.. and together with that came a promise of unfailing support.. an unconditional trust..
To me..
They are the ones who help us in every possible way to make sure we achieve our goals.
They are the ones who laugh with us.. who smile because we smile..
I long to wake up and see my parents.. I long to have dinner with my grandpa.. I long to sit outside at the balcony with dad and chat the night away.. I miss the times when I would go for movies with mom on Sundays then later we’ll go for coffee with dad.. I miss everything that home has to offer.. I miss my family!!
People often say that a child is such a blessing in life.. while I believe that Parents are such blessings in a child’s life.. No one would be in any position they are in now if not for their parents.. Our parents have loved us from the moment they brought us into this world.. giving us what they think is the best for us… never failing to love us… They stand by us no matter what happens.. They love us regardless of who and how we are.. their best gift to us is their undying and unconditional love.. and together with that came a promise of unfailing support.. an unconditional trust..
To me..
They are the ones who help us in every possible way to make sure we achieve our goals.
They are the ones who laugh with us.. who smile because we smile..
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Summer plans
Summer is coming here in Australia.. I was looking forward to going home for a long long long break.. but now.. plans have changed.. this girl now has to stay here for summer cos she didnt do well for one of her units..
I've had a super stressed and tensed out sem.. Things weren't as smooth sailing as I hope it was.. things changed.. people changed.. but through it all.. life moved on.. this one period I got to see the people who sincerely cared for me here in Australia.. I saw who my frens were.. through it all.. I guess one just learns to grow up.. to mature and take life as it comes. To just pick up the broken pieces and live life to the fullest!! I'm looking at this summer optimistically.. I know it would be a great time.. at the same time it's gonna be lots of hard work.. :) Who knows.. this might very well be one of the best summers in my life, no? ;)
Frens who have left to go home, namely, adeline, jeff, will, jin and arnold.. it's been a great year in Melbourne with u guys around.. u guys have been awesome! Good frens.. and am looking forward to seeing u guys when u guys come back next year.. best of luck through out summer.. and enjoy the hols! Especially with all of your travelling plans! :)
I have exactly SEVEN weeks before I head back to Kuching for the Christmas break.. hehehe.. I'll be home for a month.. then coming back to Melb for the exams.. then will be heading home again for CNY.. hehehe.. peeps.. am looking forward to seeing u guys when i'm home.. hehehe.. Take good care everyone! I'll update more often.. hehehe.. wish me luck in studying.. AND househunting!! hahhaa.. God Bless!!
All my love,
Ying.
I've had a super stressed and tensed out sem.. Things weren't as smooth sailing as I hope it was.. things changed.. people changed.. but through it all.. life moved on.. this one period I got to see the people who sincerely cared for me here in Australia.. I saw who my frens were.. through it all.. I guess one just learns to grow up.. to mature and take life as it comes. To just pick up the broken pieces and live life to the fullest!! I'm looking at this summer optimistically.. I know it would be a great time.. at the same time it's gonna be lots of hard work.. :) Who knows.. this might very well be one of the best summers in my life, no? ;)
Frens who have left to go home, namely, adeline, jeff, will, jin and arnold.. it's been a great year in Melbourne with u guys around.. u guys have been awesome! Good frens.. and am looking forward to seeing u guys when u guys come back next year.. best of luck through out summer.. and enjoy the hols! Especially with all of your travelling plans! :)
I have exactly SEVEN weeks before I head back to Kuching for the Christmas break.. hehehe.. I'll be home for a month.. then coming back to Melb for the exams.. then will be heading home again for CNY.. hehehe.. peeps.. am looking forward to seeing u guys when i'm home.. hehehe.. Take good care everyone! I'll update more often.. hehehe.. wish me luck in studying.. AND househunting!! hahhaa.. God Bless!!
All my love,
Ying.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Confession
I often forget the people who do care about me.. hahhaa.. this sounds so stupid.. hahaha.. All i wanna say is.. thanks all for being here for me! No matter where you guys are! I appreciate and love you all lots! :) Hugz!
All my love,
Ying.
All my love,
Ying.
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